Why more couples are choosing intimate weddings (and why they’re so damn good)
There’s a quiet shift happening in the wedding world — and it’s not about cutting corners or compromising. It’s about making space for what really matters. Enter: the intimate wedding.
Smaller in guest count, richer in meaning — intimate weddings are fast becoming the choice for couples who want a beautiful, thoughtful celebration without the pressure of a huge guest list. And honestly? We love it!
In the wake of the pandemic, many couples re-evaluated what mattered most — and when large gatherings were off the table, intimate weddings became not just a necessity, but a revelation. That mindset has lingered. Paired with the current cost of living pressures, many couples are now choosing to celebrate with fewer guests, but in a more meaningful, elevated way. It’s not about doing less — it’s about doing it better. Smaller guest lists mean more space in the budget for quality touches, heartfelt experiences, and a wedding that truly reflects the couple, not the crowd.
What is an intimate wedding?
An intimate wedding typically includes around 10 to 50 guests — just your closest circle. It still has all the magic — ceremony, styling, incredible food, heartfelt speeches — but with a more personal, relaxed feel.
And while the scale may be smaller, the impact is anything but. Intimate weddings give you the freedom to elevate the details while keeping the guest count lower.
Why couples are falling in love with intimate weddings
1. Deeper Connection
When you're surrounded by the people who know you best, your wedding becomes more than an event — it becomes a shared experience. There's space for real conversations, meaningful moments, and connection.
2. Quality Over Quantity
With a smaller guest list, you have more room to choose the things you might forgo for a larger wedding. Couples often choose to spend more on things that matter to them — think the most delectable canapes and meal, stunning styling or incredible florals, or a dream venue.
3. Less Stress, More Presence
Planning is lighter. Logistics are simpler. But the intention is high. The focus is on connection and being surrounded by that group of people who are your inner circle and spending precious time with those loved ones on a day that celebrates your love.
4. Creative Freedom
Intimate weddings open the door to unique locations and non-traditional styling. You’re not limited by size — which means you can get a little creative, a little bold, and really make it personal.
Intimate, smaller weddings are a conscious choice — made by couples who want to celebrate love in a way that feels real, relaxed, and theirs.
Is an intimate wedding right for you?
It might be if:
You want to truly connect with every guest on the day.
You’d rather have fewer people and more time & quality.
You love the idea of a wedding that reflects your style, not everyone else’s expectations.
You want to feel calm and cared for, not rushed and overwhelmed.
Planning an intimate wedding with The Wedding Scene
At The Wedding Scene, we believe weddings should feel beautiful, intentional, and full of ease. We’re here to take the overwhelm off your plate — so you can show up fully for the moments that matter most.
Why It Matters
You only get one wedding day — and it goes fast. After months of planning, you deserve to enjoy it, fully. To be with your people. To drink the champagne, feel the love, and not think about logistics once.
An on the day coordinator gives you that freedom — with calm, capable support behind the scenes.
Thinking about an intimate wedding? Let’s talk.
I offer free 30-minute discovery calls to explore your ideas and show you how we can make it effortless, elevated, and entirely you. Book your call here.